These words have been part of my family for as long as I can remember. They are strong, meaningful and created a way of life for us. The poor me was always countered with ‘you can do anything you want if you put your mind to it.’ When my sister cooked and burnt her first dinner my Dad raved about how delicious it was. If we complained about doing the dishes my Dad danced the third person around the house then came and changed partners til we were all smiling and the work was done.